Tuesday, December 20, 2011

A long overdue blog

Hi everyone,

Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year!

It's been ages since our last blog. This having 3 little boys lark is proving to be pretty time consuming and exhausting as well as obviously a complete joy. Leo's 6 months now and is sitting up, playing, swimming and being very very cute. Sam has started Kindergarton and is doing very well. Max is growing up fast. He's now 3 and has really embraced his role as a big brother. It's so lovely to see. We're used to Max being the little one and here he is looking after Leo.

We'll give you a summary of the last 6 months and then you can look at the photos. If you click on 'show info' on the slideshow, you can see a caption explaining the photo.

We've had loads of lovely visitors, I had my 40th birthday, we went to England, came back and had more lovely visitors, the boys have been growing up and Tom and I have been very tired. Poor Tom has been working extremely hard at work as well as doing all the home stuff.

After Leo was born, we were very lucky to have a stream of lovely visitors who came to help out. Rachel came for 3 weeks to look after the boys while I was in labour, then my Mum(Sybil) and Joe came and then Tom's Mum came and spent my birthday with us. Anna was in new york for that time as well. Then just before we came to England, my old colleagues Lynne and Brendan came for the night. It all seems like a bit of dream looking back but a very happy one. It was so nice having so many loved ones around as we were all getting used to having an extra family member and not much sleep.

My 40th birthday was lovely. Tom compiled a happy birthday video with little films from lots of people I love. I've watched it about 200 times. It's wonderful. Thanks ever so much to everyone who contributed to it. After watching my video and opening my presents, we played mini golf. I had a great day.

Photos of the summer, which you may have already seen, are here

We went to UK at the end of July. We had a fantastic time. It was great seeing people, although I wished it was for longer. It was prolonged by a couple of days, thanks to Tropical Storm Irene blowing its way through New York. It meant that Sam got the chance to spend his 5th birthday with his Granny, Grandad and Rachel, as well as having a birthday party with all his cousins a couple of days before. This made up for the fact that on his birthday most of his presents were the other side of the Atlantic! He got them a few days late when we finally got home, and then had a birthday party in New York with his friends. He managed to keep his birthday going for weeks!

Photos of our three weeks in England are here

Shortly after returning from Blighty, Doctor and Kim came to see us. It was really nice to see them and they were here for quite a historic event - the 10th anniversary of 9/11. Living a block away from the World Trade Center site means that a lot of our neighbours were extremely affected by 9/11. It obviously had a big effect on so many people and so it was an emotional time here. People were pleased that the memorial was opened and they now have somewhere to focus their grief. The security was like we've never experienced before - all the roads and pavements were closed and we weren't allowed out without proof of residence (which Doctor and Kim didn't have). There was also a warship parked outside our back garden. Never let it be said that New York don't take their policing seriously.

Sam started Kindergarten, which was a big step for him, as last year he was only at school in the afternoons. Now he's in proper school with lunch in the hall, playing in the playground and full days. He knew a few kids in his class from last year, but they split them up across the four classes, so he now has lots of new friends. There are 100 kids in his year at school and he seems to know them all! It took him a couple of weeks to settle in but now he loves it. His teacher Dahlia is really lovely and enthusiatic and they've been on four trips already, including to the Metropolitan Museum of Art, which I helped on. It was lovely going on a school trip not as a teacher. We went on a proper yellow Simpsons type school bus - very exciting. The education system is a lot less academic here than in UK and I do wish that Sam was stretched more - but there's a big emphasis on community and respecting others which is more important. It would be great if they could do both though. Unfortunately he's starting to get a bit of an American accent, so it might be time to move on...!

Sam has also enjoyed his first season in the Downtown Soccer League and has been scoring goals for fun. The league is really well organised with over 100 kids in his age group. The play little five a side games, although sometime some of the kids are on the sidelines so it's 1v1, 2v2 or 3v3. Tom has been looking forward to this since Sam was born and is so proud seeing him run up the wing and put the ball in the back of the net. He has been coaching the kids alongside the professional coaches and has also played a couple of 11 a side coaches' games.

At the end of September we went to stay with for a weekend with our friends in Lancaster Pennsylvania. Daniel was in Sam's class last year and Lyn is friends with his mum Denise. They moved out of the city in the summer. It was really nice to see them and we had a lovely weekend in surburban America playing in the garden, having a barbeque and going to a theme park. Sam and Max enjoyed driving Daniel and Emma's little electric cars and both Lyn and I really enjoyed taking Sam on his first proper rollercoaster ride.

Photos of the first half of Autumn are here

Occupy Wall Street has been really interesting, especially as it was just up our street and Tom passed every day on the way to work. As far as I am aware, from talking to various people, New Yorkers don't really go in for mass protests, especially about anything American. From my perspective, New Yorkers seem far too positive, stoic and patriotic to ever complain. Also they all work so hard, I can't imagine they ever really have time. I think Occupy Wall St was a very positive step that normal New Yorkers were taking a stand. A lot of the protesters went to work every day and then came back to protest. The movement seemed very popular and teachers took kids there for school trips.

There was probably about 200 or so permanent protesters with their tents and banners and about 1000 police and several whirring police and media helicopters hovering above all day. It felt like a very peaceful community. My only real complaint was that there was such a myriad of issues being raised there was no single argument. I think that let the powers that be off the hook. The camp was eventually broken up by the police because of disruption to local residents. The only thing that disrupted us was being kept awake all night by police helicopters when they decided to evict them at 2am.

Leo is now seven months and is able to play with toys and entertain himself for a bit longer now, which is nice. He is a lovely little boy and adores his big brothers. If he could just start sleeping through the night we might be able to recover some of our sleep debt! Lyn and I are so tired at the moment that it's really hard to keep up with housework and everything else that needs doing (that's our excuse and we're sticking to it!)

Last Friday was Max's third birthday and we had a nice time. It was also family friday at Sam's school, so we got up, opened presents and then all went to Sam's classroom to be shown the fruits of their term long apple project. It's always great to go into Sam's school, which seems his own little world. Later his friend Liam came round and they had cupcakes. Lyn put candles in Max's and he freaked out - "Why did you give me the one that's on fire!" He then blew them out and felt like a heroic fireman saving us all. On Saturday Paul came round and we celebrated Max's birthday (and this time he was ready for the candles...) It's amazing to think he's now as old as Sam was when we moved here. He loves his presents, so a big thank you to those of you who sent things for him.

Photos of the second half of Autumn are here

Christmas is nearly here and we have two very excited boys. I'm really looking forward to 10 days off work and it's going to be really nice to just all be together. Sorry we didn't get around to Christmas cards this year. If you haven't already seen it we've sung you a Christmas message - the link's at the top of this blog. Also sorry that we haven't really been in touch with most of you during the last six months. Please look out for us on Skype over Christmas, it would be lovely to talk to you all.

As well as all the photos, we've also uploaded a few cute videos of the boys to youtube. They are all less than 30 seconds so won't take long to download:

Max blowing out his birthday candles last weekend

Sam and Max driving a Police Car

Leo playing peepo

Sam and Max rollerblading and scooting by the River Hudson

Max is Buzz Lightyear

Batman and Buzz at Halloween

Max loves techno and dances like his dad

Sam learnt to ride his bike on Governor's Island this year

Merry Christmas, Happy New Year, and lots of love from us all!

Tom, Lyn, Sam, Max and Leo xxxxx

Thursday, May 19, 2011

Leo Bollen

Leo Bollen was born on Thursday 19th May at 17:10 (22:10 GMT). He weighs 8lbs 13oz and is 21 1/4" tall (what's that in cm?).

Mum and baby are both doing well. Leo has met his big brothers and they are very cute together.

There are some photos on our flickr site and we'll get some more up there soon. www.flickr.com/lyntom

Friday, May 13, 2011

Spring in New York



Hello everybody,

Rachel is here and we are waiting for Leo's arrival. The due date is today, but so far there have been no signs of him making his debut appearance in the world. When he comes we will try to text you all, but keep checking back here and we'll get some stats and photos up as soon as possible. On the right you can sign up as a follower of the blog, and then you'll get an instant email when there's any news.

We've been enjoying the last few weeks as spring finally arrived. Spring here seems to last only a few weeks, it's cold/snowy/rainy and then suddenly the flowers come out and the temperature shoots up into the 20s. Last year it came a lot earlier, so we thought that was the norm.

We had a nice Easter, with three easter egg hunts for the boys - one at Sam's school, one here, and one put on by Maria, our lovely teenage neighbour and babysitter. We also got some free tickets to go and watch a New York Mets baseball game with Paul. We got on the big screen twice, the boys got a baseball each from one of the coaches, and Sam and Max met Mr Met.

We had a lot of fun at the Tribeca family festival watching some BMX tricks, playing with bubbles, bouncy castles and baseballs, and seeing some wonderful acrobats.

Rachel has arrived and it is lovely having her here. Sam and Max are really excited and have been showing off their swimming, puzzle making and climbing. Since we got back from Mexico Sam's swimming has really taken off. It's amazing how fast he learns. Three months ago he didn't have the confidence to swim more than two metres, and now he's swimming six feet down to get rings from the bottom of the deep end. Rachel has an underwater camera so we have some amazing photos.

Here's the link to look at pictures from our last couple of months. Check back soon for some photos of baby Leo.

Hope to speak to you soon,

Tom x

Friday, April 22, 2011

Super Sam and Magic Max go Bananas!


A story by Sam Bollen

Super Sam and Magic Max were in their bedroom sleeping. Morning came and they woke up and went to school. After school they had ice cream and as they were eating it Sam’s hand started to vibrate.

“Hello, Super Sam and Magic Max, how can we help you?”

A strange voice said, “It's bananas! Every time we pick a banana fire comes out of the banana”.

Super Sam said, “Ok. We’re coming to help”.

Super Sam and Magic Max flew through the sky until they saw people picking bananas. As they were flying over they saw a big fire. They flew down to the burning bananas and they said, “Give all the bananas to us please”.

And then they brushed and combed the bananas and the fire stuck to the Magic Max’s magic hairbrush so they weren’t dangerous anymore. Super Sam and Magic Max gave the bananas back to the people and the fire didn’t come out of them anymore, so they could all eat the bananas happily.

The people said thank you to Super Sam and Magic Max. Super Sam and Magic Max said, “That’s no problem. Can we please take some bananas for our monkey friends?”

Super Sam and Magic Max flew to Mexico and gave bananas to all the monkeys in Mexico. They flew so fast around Mexico that they were faster than a plane. In fact they were even faster than Father Christmas delivering his presents. They dropped one banana to every monkey and then all the monkeys met together and played catch with the bananas.

Super Sam and Magic Max took the last two bananas back to New York to eat with their ice cream. But when they got back to New York mummy had eaten all of their ice cream. Mummy got them a new ice cream and they sat in the sun eating it all up!

Thursday, March 31, 2011

David Rocastle remembered

Today marks the 10 year anniversary of the death of David Rocastle, my all time favourite Arsenal player. He played on the right wing, so when we were attacking the Clock End he was always right in front of where I would stand in the Junior Gunners section. I can clearly remember being a twelve year old there for Arsenal vs. Middlesbrough in 1988. I was right on the touchline and Rocky got the ball in front of me, before beating about seven players and scoring off the post. One of my favourite ever goals. He was my idol and I would spend hours trying to copy his tricks. My favourite was the stepover dragback that he did time and again in front of me, always fooling the defender.

The real reason he was loved so much was his relationship with the fans. The success never went to his head and he always went out of his way to give back to the supporters. When I used to wait in front of the marble halls for autographs he would sign every last one, and chat while doing so. One half term at Arsenal Soccer School we had a trip to the training ground and met the players, and he talked to every single kid. He was a lovely man, and a great player.

Oh Rocky, Rocky! Rocky, Rocky, Rocky, Rocky, Rocastle!



Depending on your settings you might not see the full screen, so here's a link to the video on youtube.

Monday, March 28, 2011

Mexico

Hello everybody,

We had a lovely holiday in Mexico. It was great to get away from the New York winter and warm up a bit. New York is very cold in the winter and our apartment isn't very insulated. The cold wind comes straight off the river and right through the windows. Going away seemed to mark the end of winter and it was noticably less cold when we returned. March is a strange month here though. Last year the weather forecast oscilated between warm, snowy and floods. This year has been much the same. Last friday it was 25 degrees, but then on Wednesday it snowed!

With the new baby coming along in May we had decided it would be a perfect time for a beach holiday. Little babies and beaches don't mix particularly well, but Sam and Max love the sand, the waves and swimming pools too. We were considering a trip to Mexico, or at least somewhere warm, and then a great deal popped into my inbox and we bought it as our Christmas present to each other.

We went to Cancun for 10 days to a hotel right on the beach. It had beautiful swimming pools, gorgeous looking sea and was right at the bottom of the cancun strip, so far enough away from the really touristy part. We spent most days swimming, lazing around and playing on the beach. It was warm, but not too hot, and there was always a wind coming in off the sea to cool us down. Sam loved the whirlpools, Max loved swimming after his football in the pool, and Lyn and I just loved spending lots of time all together, relaxing. We hadn't had a relaxing beach holiday in about seven years. All of our recent holidays have been exploring interesting places and have had either a lot of time on public transport (pre-kids) or in a car (post-kids). We've seen some amazing places, but it was really nice to just chill out for once.

Having said that we did hire a car for a few days. I had wanted to visit Mayan pyramids for a long time, and the trip to Chichen Itza was amazing. It is such a beautiful, perfect pyramid. I find it incredible that people on either sides of the world decided to make pyramids in days apparently before world travel. Both the Mayan and the Egyptian pyramids are beautiful, and very clever (mathematically, astronomically and logistically) but they are also very different. The settings are different - desert (on the edge of one of the world's biggest cities) vs. cleared jungle miles from anywhere, the purposes are different, the theology is different and the designs are different. But I could sit and stare at them for ages, not alone in finding beauty in perfect geometry.

On another day we drove to Coba, which was one of the biggest Mayan cities in its day. Most of the ruins are today lost in the jungle, but the largest parts remain, spread out over several kilometres. Coba had two large pyramids, one of which at 42 metres high is taller than Chichen Itza's. Although not as well preserved as Chichen Itza you are allowed to climb to the top. It was not an easy climb, especially for Max (although Sam raced ahead), but getting to the top was amazing. From the top you could see for miles around, looking out over the jungle. While we were there we had a drink, watched the iguanas and witnessed a marriage proposal. The climb back down was even harder, especially for a pregnant Lyn in her flip-flops and dress that kept blowing up in the wind! Fortunately we had hired a tricycle to take us back the two kilometres to the car park, stopping off along the way to look at some other smaller ruins. The Mayans played a ball game that seemed to be a cross between football and basketball (except the losers were sacrificed, or the winners, depending on which historian you believe) and we saw some courts, as well as a beautiful observatory.

After leaving the site we found a really nice roadside cafe where we had some of the nicest food of the holiday and then relaxed in their hammocks. On the way back we stopped off at Tulum and saw the Mayan ruins on the cliffs above the sea. This is where I would have lived if I had been a Mayan king. Right on the coast, with my temple looking out over the waves...

Our other great day out was a visit to a crocodile farm and spider monkey sanctuary. We held young crocodiles, stroked snakes and fed wild monkeys. Spider monkeys are the monkeys with big stong tails which are almost like a fifth arm. They have always been Lyn and my favourites at London Zoo and these were free in the wild, hanging out at the sanctuary. We had a small bag of bananas and carrots to feed them, and they would follow us around for a while. At one point I was carrying Max and a monkey took his hat off his head! This gave Max his favourite story, and you will no doubt hear him say 'the monkey took my at'!

After catching a bus back to downtown Cancun we went to a party restaurant with live music, dancers and loads of skeletons. The waiters carried everything on their heads and juggled the condiments. Every so often there was a little skit and one time Sam was invited to chase a burglar around the restaurant and bash him with a stick! Sam is really into bad guys at the moment so he threw himself into the part. We all danced the tequila song and Sam got a dance from a beautiful waitress. On the way back to the bus we crossed a square where they were renting miniature cars to local kids and the boys had a drive - Sam on a dune buggy and Max in a convertable mini. Sam drove really well and even managed to reverse park. Max thought he was driving, but I had a remote control!

We spent the rest of the time at and around the hotel. At the beginning of our stay Lyn was recognised by the lady who did her make-up at our wedding. This was very impressive as they'd only met twice, over two years ago. It was a really nice surprise to meet people from London. Ronit had a daughter who was Sam's age and they played a lot together. Most nights we all went to dinner together and the kids entertained themselves. They both went to the hotel kids club as well, so Sam was very happy. His first holiday romance!

We had a lovely holiday and Mexico is definitely somewhere we'd go back to. The people were really friendly, the food was good, the setting was beautiful and the weather was great.

Here are some photos for you to enjoy.

Lots of love,

Tom, Lyn, Sam and Max x

Saturday, February 12, 2011

Hi everyone,

It's been ages since we last did a post. We've had visitors, Max's birthday, Christmas, loads and loads of snow, hail, ice and wind since then.

Bob, Tom's dad, came to stay in November. It was great. He went to various New York sporting events with Tom, went to see Gil Scott Heron with me and we all went to museums together. It was lovely spending time with him and watching him playing with the boys. We all really missed him when he left.

My lovely friend Olivia came for the week before Christmas. Unfortunately, her visit coincided with when New York's winter weather started and the snottiest stage of the boys' colds. They weren't at their most beautiful. Inevitably, she got a cold too and spent most of her visit apartment bound - although she did help me with Christmas shopping the day before Christmas Eve in a mall in New Jersey. It was so fantastic to see her. It felt like when she used to come and stay with us in London. I'd really missed her warmth and sense of humour. The thing I still can't get used to about being over here is being so far away from all our amazing friends and family.

Max's birthday was fun, if a little stressful in preparation. I organised my first indoor children's party not in a school. We had 8 nearly 2 year olds and 4 year olds and their parents. I think a good time was had by all - but it was pretty manic.

Christmas was really civilised. The boys woke up at a very respectable 8 o'clock. Sam woke up first and then woke Max up and gave him his stocking. They made present opening last all day. They opened a present, played together with it for an hour and then went for the next one. I know it's not always going to be that peaceful. It was really lovely - just too far away from everyone.

Winter here has been pretty brutal and relentless in its coldness. It was warmer than England for the first part of December. Then on Boxing Day, it snowed all day and night along with with really strong winds. We took the boys out to play in it, but only lasted 7 minutes. Max got blown over and it was no fun at all. It was really beautiful to watch from inside though. The next day it finally settled and Sam and I went out to play Antarctic explorers. He stepped onto a pavement that no-one had walked on and the snow came up to Sam's chest. It still hasn't melted. There are big grey dirty icy piles of the stuff everywhere with dog poo and litter hiding in it which are irresistable to Sam and his friends. We've had 2 snowfalls of more than 20" and lots of this New York phenomenon called 'Wintry Mix' which consists of hail, wind, rain, snow and everything cold and nasty. There was a snow day one day which was lovely. We met up with some children from Sam's class and did sledging and made snowmen and it was great fun. Everywhere we went there were jubilant children and teenagers free for a day.

Winter has been especially hard for the children, because it has been hard to go out and play as much as they would like. We have had loads and loads of play dates with children who live in our building in each other's apartments. Also, Bob very kindly bought us all a year's membership for Brooklyn's Children's Museum which also gets us into other museums and sights around America. We've already used loads including to visit the Intrepid which is a massive aircraft carrier that was bombed by Kamikaze planes in World War 2. We joined a community centre and have gone swimming loads. About 2 weeks ago, Sam discarded his float and noodle and started swimming on his own. It was ever so impressive. We were so proud, I had tears in my eyes.

Tom and Sam went skiing with one of Sam's friends and his Dad for the day at a ski resort 2 hours drive away. Everyone had loads of fun, despite lots of falling over!

Something we forgot to mention in our autumn post was the US Open tennis. Both Tom and I went to an evening session, Tom with some friends from work and me with Karen. Tom saw home favourite Andy Roddick lose in the second round and the next night I saw Novak Djokovic win. During the match, a block away from where I was sitting there was a fight in the seats. It was unbelievable with play stopping as the two rolled down the stands. Here is a video. It changes from an arguement to a fight 1min in. Needless to say the US Open is very different from Wimbledon...

Here are a collection of our winter photos.

Hope you are all well. Roll on Spring!!! We'll be back soon with a post and photos from our holiday to Mexico.